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Cathryn & Ben

April 18, 2026 • Charlottesville, VA

Cathryn & Ben

April 18, 2026 • Charlottesville, VA

A few photos of our love story

We went on our first date and spent approximately five hours at a frozen yogurt shop in Phoenix talking.

June 16, 2017

We went on our first date and spent approximately five hours at a frozen yogurt shop in Phoenix talking.
Ben met the most important man in Cathryn's life, her childhood dog, Steve.

July 30, 2017

Ben met the most important man in Cathryn's life, her childhood dog, Steve.
We celebrated our three-month anniversary with a fancy dinner.

September 30, 2017

We celebrated our three-month anniversary with a fancy dinner.
Our first Halloween together and we showed out with TWO costumes.

October 27, 2017

Our first Halloween together and we showed out with TWO costumes.
The second costume in question.

October 28, 2017

The second costume in question.
We spent our first Thanksgiving together in Colorado. Obviously had to catch an Avalanche game.

November 25, 2017

We spent our first Thanksgiving together in Colorado. Obviously had to catch an Avalanche game.
Ben started spending more time with Cathryn's family. This was on a dinner date with her dad.

January 07, 2018

Ben started spending more time with Cathryn's family. This was on a dinner date with her dad.
Cathryn got to meet Ben's family and fell in love with his childhood dog, Frankie.

January 07, 2018

Cathryn got to meet Ben's family and fell in love with his childhood dog, Frankie.
We attended our first wedding together (we love you Niki & Doug!), and we secured each other as our forever wedding dates.

June 02, 2018

We attended our first wedding together (we love you Niki & Doug!), and we secured each other as our forever wedding dates.
We've been together for lots and lots of birthdays. This picture was taken on Cathryn's 21st.

May 04, 2019

We've been together for lots and lots of birthdays. This picture was taken on Cathryn's 21st.
Ben graduated from Miami University in Ohio. We felt very grown up.

May 18, 2019

Ben graduated from Miami University in Ohio. We felt very grown up.
Ben finally experienced Maryland culture. This was his first time trying seafood in Baltimore, which was critical to Cathryn's upbringing.

May 23, 2019

Ben finally experienced Maryland culture. This was his first time trying seafood in Baltimore, which was critical to Cathryn's upbringing.
Cathryn's dad took us to Vegas to celebrate her 21st birthday. We saw the Suns' general manager James Jones in this hotel restaurant. (Pre-Chris Paul)

July 05, 2019

Cathryn's dad took us to Vegas to celebrate her 21st birthday. We saw the Suns' general manager James Jones in this hotel restaurant. (Pre-Chris Paul)
We started doing long distance from Atlanta to Kentucky for Cathryn's senior year at UK and Ben's year at Georgia Tech.

August 31, 2019

We started doing long distance from Atlanta to Kentucky for Cathryn's senior year at UK and Ben's year at Georgia Tech.
We learned that Ben's hand is the size of Cathryn's head.

September 28, 2019

We learned that Ben's hand is the size of Cathryn's head.
We love Christmas. This was our third one together.

December 05, 2019

We love Christmas. This was our third one together.
Cathryn spent her first Christmas with Ben's family in Phoenix and Tucson.

December 24, 2019

Cathryn spent her first Christmas with Ben's family in Phoenix and Tucson.
We moved in together sooner than expected because of the pandemic. Cathryn moved into Ben's graduate school housing in Atlanta, and they adopted some Trader Joe's seedlings that have since passed away.

March 16, 2020

We moved in together sooner than expected because of the pandemic. Cathryn moved into Ben's graduate school housing in Atlanta, and they adopted some Trader Joe's seedlings that have since passed away.
Cathryn graduated from the University of Kentucky (kind of) and officially moved all her things from Lexington to our new apartment in Atlanta.

May 30, 2020

Cathryn graduated from the University of Kentucky (kind of) and officially moved all her things from Lexington to our new apartment in Atlanta.
We brought home Chester!

September 22, 2020

We brought home Chester!
Chester was our first baby and he brightened our COVID lockdown by being our instant soulmate. We stopped taking a lot of pictures together around this time because of the pandemic. Most of our camera rolls became our pets.

September 22, 2020

Chester was our first baby and he brightened our COVID lockdown by being our instant soulmate. We stopped taking a lot of pictures together around this time because of the pandemic. Most of our camera rolls became our pets.
We celebrated our first Christmas in our very own apartment with our first baby.

December 25, 2020

We celebrated our first Christmas in our very own apartment with our first baby.
We finally got to go back to Suns games after the pandemic eased up.

May 05, 2021

We finally got to go back to Suns games after the pandemic eased up.
We brought home our little old man, Atticus. He and Chester are soulmates.

September 04, 2021

We brought home our little old man, Atticus. He and Chester are soulmates.
We hosted our first Thanksgiving with Cathryn's family. Even her dad came. We were all shocked.

November 25, 2021

We hosted our first Thanksgiving with Cathryn's family. Even her dad came. We were all shocked.
We spent Christmas with Cathryn's brother and future sister-in-law. Ben was too large for the picture at the Atlanta ferris wheel.

December 18, 2021

We spent Christmas with Cathryn's brother and future sister-in-law. Ben was too large for the picture at the Atlanta ferris wheel.
Ben's brothers visited our apartment in Atlanta for Thanksgiving. This was the second one we hosted.

November 25, 2022

Ben's brothers visited our apartment in Atlanta for Thanksgiving. This was the second one we hosted.
We celebrated Ben's 26th birthday. And Ben grew a beard.

January 31, 2023

We celebrated Ben's 26th birthday. And Ben grew a beard.
We boarded the plane to go house hunting in Virginia! And Ben shaved his beard.

February 25, 2023

We boarded the plane to go house hunting in Virginia! And Ben shaved his beard.
We left Atlanta for Virginia and moved into our first house together. Cathryn started her PhD program that year.

June 04, 2023

We left Atlanta for Virginia and moved into our first house together. Cathryn started her PhD program that year.
We brought home our doggy, Bartleby.

July 08, 2023

We brought home our doggy, Bartleby.
We hosted our first Thanksgiving in our new home. Lots of cooking, lots of friends.

November 23, 2023

We hosted our first Thanksgiving in our new home. Lots of cooking, lots of friends.
Ben proposed at home. We were surrounded by our boys. The ring is an emerald, which is Cathryn's birth stone. We got to celebrate with a nice dinner.

November 30, 2024

Ben proposed at home. We were surrounded by our boys. The ring is an emerald, which is Cathryn's birth stone. We got to celebrate with a nice dinner.
Since both of Ben's brothers also moved to the DMV, we've gotten to see lots of them over the last couple of years. This picture is from the Shenandoah Apple Blossom Festival. Ben's brothers took this picture from the adjacent ferris wheel car.

April 26, 2025

Since both of Ben's brothers also moved to the DMV, we've gotten to see lots of them over the last couple of years. This picture is from the Shenandoah Apple Blossom Festival. Ben's brothers took this picture from the adjacent ferris wheel car.
We got to travel abroad together for the first time! Cathryn presented her research at a conference in Italy, and Ben tagged along for the ride.

May 21, 2025

We got to travel abroad together for the first time! Cathryn presented her research at a conference in Italy, and Ben tagged along for the ride.
We've been lucky enough to attend so many lovely weddings together. We love love. This was taken at Emma (Cathryn's bridesmaid) and her husband Quentin's wedding!

July 26, 2025

We've been lucky enough to attend so many lovely weddings together. We love love. This was taken at Emma (Cathryn's bridesmaid) and her husband Quentin's wedding!
We have had so much fun building our life together. And we can't wait to celebrate with our favorite people!

August 02, 2025

We have had so much fun building our life together. And we can't wait to celebrate with our favorite people!